Revised Four Agreements - Personalized

1. Only you can take care of yourself. If you delegate that task to someone else, I guarentee that you will eventually hate the decisions they make. 2. Don't take anything personally. No matter what they say, people don't really think about you except to advance their own agenda. 3. Don't believe anyone's PR. Particularly your own. 3a. Take a break from your story once in a while. 4. Prioritize where you put your time, energy, attention, and resources. 5. Be curious not judgemental. - Walt Whitman 5. Most people just need to be managed. - Hal Stone 6. When there is no need to decide, you need not decide. Lord Faulklin 7. Do not trust your first reaction, that is the one you are conditioned to have. Wait for the second reaction. 8. No plan can survive meeting the enemy. Sun Tzu 9. Life is lived in iterations. 10. Graditude does not last. 11. “I learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side, be an advocate for myself and others like me.” — Maya Angelou 12. You might delight some people and you might trigger some people with the exact same actions. That is why you don't take anything personally. 13. Nobody's thinking of you. So don't what people think of you, they are not thinking of you, they are thinking of themselves. They never did think about you except as it applies to them.